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Deconstruction & Secular Humanism


The Labels We Wear: When Being Human Is Enough
We don't need to be divine, chosen or royal to matter. To be human is enough. That truth is the beginning of real freedom.
Apr 83 min read
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The Gravity of Heresy
I bore their hymns like skin,
soft-spoken, sanctified,
a fragile sun ordained to burn,
but never question why.
Mar 301 min read
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Apophasis
Deconstruction is the art of precision— a methodical unraveling, as if faith were a theorem to be tested, hypothesis by hypothesis, until...
Mar 302 min read
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Escaping the Industrial Spiritual Complex: From Christianity to New Age to True Freedom
In the U.S., where capitalism touches every aspect of life, spirituality is no exception.
Mar 135 min read
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The Industrial Spiritual Complex in America: How Spirituality Became a Product
You are never enough—but you could be, if you just buy the next level. The real freedom? Realizing you don’t need a path at all.
Mar 135 min read
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The God of the Bible: A Case Study in Narcissism
Throughout my journey of deconstruction, I’ve encountered a common thread among those leaving Christianity: the realization that the God...
Mar 34 min read
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Breaking the Chains of Us vs. Them: A Call for Radical Self-Accountability
This relentless “us versus them” mentality is a trap. It’s a convenient excuse to avoid accountability.
Feb 224 min read
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Emotional Sovereignty: Why Women Must Take Accountability for Their Own Emotional Regulation
Our emotional regulation is our own responsibility. The moment we fully embrace that, we reclaim a level of sovereignty.
Feb 214 min read
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When Prayer Becomes a Prison: How "The Power of a Praying Wife" Enables Spiritual Abuse
I saw the future stretched out before me, and I knew—if I stayed, my son would grow up to be just like his father.
Feb 215 min read
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The Age of Reason: A Dialogue Across Time with Thomas Paine
If I could have a conversation with Thomas Paine, I imagine it would be a spirited one—filled with shared critiques of religious...
Feb 162 min read
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“God Is in Control”: How Evangelicals Use ‘God’s Plan’ as an Excuse to Let the World Burn
Evangelicals use “God is in control” to justify inaction, ignoring injustice while waiting for divine rescue. No god is coming—we must save
Feb 134 min read
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The Snake: Truth-Teller or Villain? A Secular Humanist Reexamination
“The snake wasn’t the villain—it was the truth-teller, the catalyst for humanity’s awakening.”
Jan 214 min read
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Reflections on Between the World and Me – Chapters 2 & 3
Coates’ words in Between the World and Me expose systemic truths, challenging us to face discomfort, unlearn myths, and pursue justice with
Dec 22, 20243 min read
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Reflections on Between the World and Me, Chapter 1.
Love isn’t passive; it’s about seeing fully and acting justly, no matter how uncomfortable the truth may be.
Dec 19, 20243 min read
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Wicked Reflections: Glinda, Southern White Women, and a Call to Accountability
This post is for every Southern white woman who has inherited the glitter but is ready to embrace the grit. Let’s do better—together.
Dec 12, 20243 min read
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Godless Christmas
“This is for those untangling the threads of faith, searching for truth beyond tradition. For those who once found meaning in the pews...
Dec 5, 20242 min read
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Unraveling the Patriarchy of Religion: The Missing Mother and the Power Within
One of the most striking revelations in this journey is the glaring absence of a divine mother figure in Abrahamic religions.
Dec 5, 20243 min read
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The Power of Belief: The God Within Us
Belief is the most powerful force in the world. It shapes how we see reality, how we act, and even how we justify the outcomes of our...
Dec 1, 20243 min read
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The Top 10 Lies of Evangelicalism: Exposed and Disproved
Evangelicalism presents a series of doctrines and beliefs as unquestionable truths, often discouraging critical thinking and dissent.
Nov 26, 20244 min read
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She Is at Peace, but Somehow on Fire: A Southern Woman’s Secular Humanist Response to America Today
There is a phrase that echoes in my mind these days, like embers carried on the wind from a roaring fire: She is at peace, but somehow on...
Nov 22, 20244 min read
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